Relational artistry
Rouven deciphers complex patterns, structures and dynamics that most people perceive as given and don't question at all. He cleans up with subconsciously adapted unfitting beliefs and behaviours.
Decluttering Love and relationships from colonial and artificial cultural beliefs he offers no fixed answers or certain relational style for you. But he carries many questions and tools that help you find your authentic responses while he's a committed guide at your side.
With his seemingly unique perspective and his compassionate traumasensitive approach he has helped far over a thousand couples towards more fulfillment and authenticity in relationships in the past 13 years.
Why evolutionary?
What happens to an organism when put under pressure?
It either dies or it develops according to the circumstances.
This adaptation is evolution and it also applies in cultural terms!
It's actually the same with relationships.
Relationships are organisms with at least 2 cells (usually called a "couple").
An evolutionary relationship invites growth and development and gains its stability not out of outward safeties, fixed states or regulations but from the trust whithin, grounded on the relational behaviour.
The profound connection between the partners makes development possible and creates deeply satisfying depth and trust.
What about integrity?
The willingness to follow your truth is the basis of trustworthy connection and intimacy. Likewise it is your guiding light to stay true to yourself.
This is integrity, making you a reliable accomplice for your own needs aswell as for another person to grow with.
Integrity is not about being enlightend or pushing yourself to perfectionism. It means following what is right for you, your hearts truth and virtues, questioning all of it consequently, while being in vulnerable connection with yourself and others.
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers
within yourself that you have built against it.” – Rumi
If you feel that your relationship with others or yourself needs movement and development, Rouven will accompany you with needs-oriented coaching and trauma-aware bodywork through trainings, workshops and individual sessions, so that you can build your relationships based on authenticity and expressing your inherent powerful potential in this world.
Life is all about relationships.
Authentic relationships with yourself, with others, your body and your purpose in life.
I support you in trauma-sensitive ways on your inner and interpersonal relationship journey.
I'm looking forward to meeting you,
Rouven
Find out why a new paradigm of relating is desperatly needed in our modern culture.