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THERE'S A SPLIT IN ALL OF US
A split between the two needs: AUTONOMY vs. CONNECTION Most relational and personal struggles aswell as what relational trauma evokes...


NEEDAWARNESS AS AN EVER CHANGING ORGANISM
This one builds on my post from yesterday about the connection between needs, midlife/quaterlife crisis and our nervous system. While ...


FEELING YOU MAKES ME LOVE YOU
I'm learning so much about myself the last weeks. After decades of identifying with certain personality traits, virtues and ...


DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN AN ATTACHMENT BOX
Attachment styles like : 😎 Avoidant Attachment 😱 Anxious Attachment 😵💫 Disorganized Attachment or 🥰 Safe Attachment are...


NERVOUS SYSTEM REGULATION THROUGH RELATING
Since I'm back in Leipzig after my adventurous journey (see posts before) I had some difficulty to land & come to rest. So this morning...


UTOPIA IS JUST ONE CONNECTION AWAY
I've spend the last two weeks in an utopian bubble on a fjord in Sweden called embodied intimacy summercamp. Sitting at Stockholm...


OUR F*CKED UP WAY OF RELATING IS A CULTURAL PHENOMENON
The day before I got a call from a client who was visiting me for a couples mentoring session with his partner the morning. He was quite...


DON'T MIX UP TRAUMA-BONDING WITH LOVING
It's often not easy to distinguish the one from the other! And although alot of people will tell you '5 (to 10) signs to spot real/false...


WHAT WE GET WRONG IN RELATIONSHIPS
One of the biggest misconceptions in relationships is that we have to be aligned in viewpoint and perspective to feel the connection. ...


THE HUMAN DILEMMA OF LOVE HAVING NO FORM
My heart cracked open once more yesterday through the love I recieve in all her purity, while the form is not what I wished for. I'm...


REOWN YOUR SENSITIVITY
Whenever time permits, I go for long walks in beautiful Leipzig. There I let myself be guided by magic and intuition - usually I am on...
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